So much of my identity these days resides in the fact that I am a mother. I am the mama to 3 little girls, ages 6, 2 and 9 months, and to say they’re my world would be an understatement. In February, we found out we were expecting our fourth baby and of course we were eager to find out the gender. We have always wanted 4 children and though most people would assume we would be hoping for a boy, we truly just pray for a healthy baby every time we’re pregnant. Having 3 girls with another one on the way always draws a lot of commentary so I wrote this letter on the night we found out the baby’s gender to remember exactly how I felt when we found out what our fourth and final baby would be.